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About being direct about your feelings

"I am very verbal. Or verbose? I am direct. And very direct.I know what I feel. And I am never shy to share what I feel. But sometimes, it is also difficult to spot a feeling. The human mind is complex.  One Portuguese word I love, which is how I connect with Portugal itself. Saudade."  https://kkpradeeban.blogspot.com/2024/08/desire-for-change-vs-pattern.html?m=1 I read this blog by my Twitter friend @pradeeban who lives in Alaska and I was inspired to restart writing. I am sharing here some brief monologues of mine that came out on a Twitter thread. What I like about Pradeeban's writing is that he is so direct about his feelings. This is so important to connect with others & coming from an Asian country this is really exceptional. I admire that because it took me years to become so direct. I used to be an extremely polite person. I used to internalise my feelings hoping somehow things would get solved. I think it was almost at the age of 40 years that I decided I wo...